I was chatting with a colleague this week and she mentioned that when she sits down with a client, one of the questions she sometimes asks them is whether or not they think they would feel better if their circumstances were different. Try this on for yourself. Think of something in your life….
In 2012, three years after having successfully launched an international training school for coaches called Supercoach Academy, I put the school on hold for a year because I noticed something was “off” in the way people were hearing the principles
When people first begin learning about how everything we see, hear, taste, touch, and smell is made up of thought, there’s an interesting thing that happens with remarkable consistency. The first is that some problem they’d been suffering with in their life “pops”, in the sense that they either find an easy solution, make their peace with it…
My wife and I were having a conversation about a mutual acquaintance who had in our minds behaved appallingly the previous weekend. At first, she wondered why I wasn’t as upset as her, and then she got it.
“Oh,” she said. “You’re loving them two levels deep and I’m only willing to go one level at the moment.”
