To begin today’s tip, I would like you to think about something that you would really love to be, do, have, or change in your life but it seems impossible that you ever will.
This is not a “fantasy”, in the sense that it defies the laws of time, space, and matter, but rather something you really do want in your life that really does seem beyond unlikely for you to have it.
Every Sunday, a brave piano teacher named Vidal ventures into our home to offer five consecutive piano lessons to our family. He is endlessly patient, wonderfully flexible, and although none of us practice as much as he asks us to, we are noticing to our delight and surprise that occasional snatches of recognizable music emerge from our otherwise eclectic key pounding.
Nina and I are enjoying our second honeymoon in the Tahitian islands this week, and the dream like setting has inspired me to think about the difference between conventional life coaching and transformative or “super” coaching.
Steve Chandler is one of my favorite coaches and mentors, and I’m writing this from NYC where he is leading a session on “Creating a Fearless Coaching Practice” for my Supercoach Academy.
Think of something you have thus far failed to achieve or create…
Now answer this question:
Is it because you couldn’t, you didn’t really want to, or both?